I literally overcame self esteem issues by making ironically over-arrogant claims because even if you’re joking about something a lot you start to believe it and that can totally work in a good way if you let it
They’ve done studies and the “fake it till you make it” mindset actually works and if you keep up a mantra you come to believe it after a time. It actually is how I came to really love myself.
No one want’s to destroy male gamer culture, no one want’s to get rid of video games with male leads, or completely forego the idea of sexy characters! We just want that not to be the only thing there is 80% of the time, it’s that simple :/